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Wednesday, February 25, 2009

IT IS WHAT IT IS - But, WHAT is it??????

I've heard friends say this phrase - "It is what it is." lately and I'm like "So what is it?????" Then someone said it this week and it blew me away that he would say it. Which made me wonder what does it really mean? Is it a statement of denial of dealing with something? Is it pure acceptance and we've given up doing anything about it? Is it an acceptance statement of something that we have no control over and am not going to worry or stress out over it?


I found the following in the Urban Dictionary:

A cliche, popular within the circles of coaches, business execs, and those of us who just want to say "It's happened. 'I'm going to forget about it. I'm going to move on. There is nothing that can be done about it."

Voted by USA Today as the #1 cliche of 2004 (Man, am I behind the times.)

"We showed up and gave 100%, and it is what it is."— NASCAR driver Jimmie Johnson, after finishing second in the Nextel Cup championship. (AP, Nov. 22) "Never in a million years did I think we would be 1-5 at this juncture, but it is what it is."— Mike Minter, safety for the NFL's Carolina Panthers, on his team's start this season. (AP, Oct. 24) Is this a better game than before? That's what a lot of people are asking. Perhaps the more precise question should be: Is this what hockey is going to evolve into? And if so, will the fans, the players, the coaches, and the general managers embrace it as NHL hockey? "It is what it is," said Flyers coach Ken Hitchcock. "It's a new game." (AP, Oct. 23)

It is what it Is in a nutshell, it means "this is the way its going right now, and thats how it is." kind of a way to say: dont overthink the situation. a reminder to keep things simple, dont overanalyze things, or a way to put a definition on something thats hard to explain.


I guess it is what it is.......


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